A pessimist sees the difficulty in every opportunity;
an optimist sees the opportunity in every difficulty.
Winston
Churchill
All the
people who reached the heights, usually produce an indispensable mental habit -
optimism. Without optimism, life loses its luster, and at every step difficult.
This is an important habits.
Measure of
mental health - is the willingness of all to find a good
Optimism, in
fact, is also a necessary quality for achieving certain goals, and on life in
general. People with a more optimistic turn of mind and achieve their goals
easier to go through life ...
So, what is
the optimism? Optimism - a characteristic of man, his formative psychological
processes in such a way that many things are perceived more positively, and
surrounding processes - are considered in terms of a positive outlook. The
optimism - certainly a good quality, which should be valued and promoted.
Optimism -
the inner generator positive, the energy which we so often try to get outside,
interacting with other people - positive sources.
Send your
optimism really facing things that occupy a dominant position in your life that
you then bring as much joy. Send it to self-development - and you never feel
somewhat slighted. In the end, send their optimism in the business - and the
result will be forthcoming.
Optimists
believe that all the failures - a temporary phenomenon, and all such situations
are perceived as a challenge, with which they are struggling with a vengeance.
Optimists often
succeeding. When hiring preferences on a competitive basis in the main give
more optimists than pessimists. It is believed that they live longer. In
essence, it is friendly and pleasant people to communicate, which carry only a
positive. They perceive the reality of life as it really is.
Fill your
mind with positive ideas, thoughts and inspirations and you will have no room
left for the negative.
When you
face serious challenges in your life, being unhappy and speaking negatively to
yourself won't change anything for the better. Instead, seek out joy in
positive affirmations of your continued worth.
How to
become an optimist person?
First,
optimists look for the good in every situation. No matter what goes wrong, they
always look for something good or beneficial. And not surprisingly, they always
seem to find it.
Second,
optimists always seek the valuable lesson in every setback or difficulty. They
believe that, "difficulties come not to obstruct, but to instruct."
They believe that each setback or obstacle contains a valuable lesson they can
learn and grow from, and they are determined to find it.
Third, optimists always look for the solution
to every problem. Instead of blaming or complaining when things go wrong, they
become action oriented. They ask questions like, "What's the solution?
What can we do now? What's the next step? "
In addition, people who are habitually
optimistic, positive and upbeat think and talk continually about their goals.
They think and talk about the future and where they are going rather than the
past and where they came from. They are always looking forward rather than
backward.
Expect the
best - and your optimism will open the door favorable opportunities
An old and
very wise Chinese man said to his friend:
- Look at
the room in which we are better, and try to remember things brown. - The room
was a lot of things brown, and each quickly coped with this task. But the wise
Chinese man asked him the following question:
- Close-ka
his eyes and list all the things ... blue! - A friend was confused and
troubled: "I did not notice the blue, because I remembered at your bidding
only things brown!"
To which the
wise man replied: "Open your eyes, look around - in fact in the room are
so many things in blue." And it was true. Then the wise Chinese man
continued: "This is an example, I wanted to show the truth of life: if
Did you mean
things in the room just brown, but in real life - only the bad, and then you'll
only see them, ignore them entirely, and only they will be remembered to you
and to participate in your life. Remember: if you are looking for,
bad, you're
sure to find it and never notice anything good.
Therefore,
if the life you will wait and mentally prepare for the worst - it will
necessarily happen to you, you'll never be disappointed in their fears and
concerns, but all you'll find them new
and new
evidence. But if you are going to hope and prepare for the better, then you
will not attract bad in my life, but simply to risk only to be disappointed
sometimes - life is impossible without disappointments.
Expecting
the worst, you lose the life of all the good that it actually is. If you expect
bad things to it, and then you will get. And vice versa. You can buy a strength
of spirit, through which any stress, critical
situation in
life will have a positive side. "
Believe that
you will succeed.
Realize that
you are solely responsible for their own future. You are solely responsible for
the outcome of your efforts. Do not look for blame.
Do not
hesitate to ask for help as you need, but remember that the final decision
depends on you. This is your life, in the end.
When you are
looking for something, you will find it. If you constantly expect exceptional
success, you are sure it will achieve. Peak performers attract success. During
the day, think back to the goals. Do this at least 5 times a day and imagine
how you implement them. If your goal is to get rich, imagine a house in which
you live, a car, where you ride, the feeling of wealth and pleasure from achieving
your goals. Go back to your desires again and again, until you're fully
confident that implement them, and it will happen.
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