If you can find a path with no obstacles, it probably
doesn't lead anywhere.
Frank A. Clark
Obstacles
are necessary to the success, because victory comes only after a stubborn
battle and countless defeats. Every battle, every failure creates your skills
and abilities, your courage and your endurance, your strength and your
confidence
Think of all
the obstacles as challenges that you are destined to overcome. You will
encounter obstacles, so expect them, but also expect that you will overcome
them, anyway.
Use the
obstacles to develop their strength and skills, do not run away. Find a way to
overcome them! Path is always! If your emotions are acting against your desire,
embrace them, learn about their emotions, find themselves, but still continue
to move forward. Make your goal your commitment, and everything will happen.
Overcoming
challenges, rather than surrender - that is what has made people rich. Look at
the challenges everywhere. So you have to get used to them. You will be able to
get to where you want to go, only if you are ready to meet the challenges on
the road. All calls - it is successful opportunities dressed in work clothes,
remember this. Once you get through the challenge, you'll see that fruit, which
he keeps in himself.
Obstacles -
this is the means necessary for transformation in your personality that you
need to be to achieve the desired.
Parable of
the well
Once the
donkey fell into the well and began yelling loudly, calling for help. At his
cries ran master donkey and threw up his hands --
in fact pull
the donkey from the well was impossible.
Then the
owner reasoned thus: "My ass is old, and he remained a short time, but I
still wanted to buy a new colt. This
well is
quite dry, and I have long wanted him to fall asleep and dig a new one. So why
would not immediately kill two birds with one stone - throw dust
I'm moving
the old well, and donkey at the same time bury ".
Without
thinking, he invited his neighbors - all together took up shovels and began to
throw the earth into a well. Donkey immediately realized
what's what
and began to cry loudly, but people do not pay attention to his cries and
silently continued to throw the earth into a well.
However,
very soon, the donkey stopped. When the owner looked into the well, he saw the
following picture - every piece of land, which
fell on the
donkey's back, he shook and crush feet. After some time, to everyone's surprise,
the donkey was at the top and jumped out of the well! So ...
... Perhaps
in your life has been all sorts of trouble, and in the future, life will send
you more and more. And every time
when you
drop the next room, remember that you can shake it, and precisely because of
this someone, climb a little higher.
Thus, you
will gradually be able to get out of the deepest wells.
Every
problem - it is the stone that life throws at you, but stepping on these
stones, you can go bobble.
Challenges -
this is the same life situations, like many others, we just are not ready for
them or did not expect such a development. Any success is built on the errors.
Believe me, from all points of view, the problem - it is a blessing. Problems -
it heralds. They always bring gifts. The larger problem, the more valuable
gift. If you are bogged down in problems, it is difficult to see, but if you
remember the most difficult times of my life, you'll realize that these gifts
were really beautiful.
Solving the
problem, we succeed. Once you understand that the problem always brings
something positive, then, even if you are really hard, you will find yourself
on the path to happiness and success. Of course, if you do not run away and not
lose heart. Challenges - this is the greatest blessing. They force us to change
what you want to change. They hone our abilities and skills. They always bring
wonderful gifts, but to find them, sometimes it takes time.
Your actions
and thoughts, mostly to manage emotions. Emotions - the very first to react
negatively to the problem. After we leave the comfort zone.
Try to be
calm at moments when the only problem occurred. This is the most important
period. From your initial reaction will depend on developments in the future.
Strong negative reaction to very quickly launch the law of attraction, and
within a few hours you happen to have many little negative developments that
have further put you out of yourself, then what can really create a severe
problem. In the initial period of the main rule: do not aggravate the problem
even more. Usually, the first problem is not critical, and it is our negative
reaction forces us to respond quickly, not take informed decisions, which leads
to the really serious problem. Because this period is important to perceive the
problem began quietly. Everything can be easily corrected. It is important to
be able to come to his senses. Then you notice how these problems over time
will decide. You try to do to address them all, what you can, and hold your
negative emotions, so as not to attract even more negative events.
If the
problem is too much knocked you off track, it is best not to take any action to
address the problem, but to wait an hour or two until you come to his senses.
It is important to digress, to look at the problem from another point of view.
Wait until the moment when the emotions die down, because they do not allow us
to think clearly and to see a picture in real terms.
1. Learn to
realize that the problem - this is normal life situations and there is nothing
wrong with that. Badly we are doing them yourself, reacting negatively.
2. Realize
that only through a problem, you can reach your goals.
3. Finally,
understand that the problems are gifts from God.
4. Anchor
the first 3 in the subconscious mind with autosuggestion.
And only
then will you encounter the problem calmly, because they do not estrange you
from the goal, but rather approximate. When your subconscious mind will absorb
the principles that it presents problems, then your emotions will change upon
the occurrence of problems.
Life is not
a uniformly moving forward and upward, and a sine curve. Understand that no
problems will not be successful, as well as without the winter would not be
summer without nights - the day. In nature everything has its opposite. So,
think of your success with joy and be thankful, but be prepared that he may be
replaced by a failure, with a very short period of time. During the same
failures, quietly pass them, and know that soon all will end, winter is
replaced in the summer. This is only temporary event.
After the
winter, nature seemed alive, all becomes cheerful tone. From the man is the
same: after the problems he goes much stronger, with great experience, using
which it can achieve even greater success. This is the sweet fruit of the
problems they bring with them.
One
component of success - is once again stand up after you fall. The circumstances
govern the weak, and they are also the tools for the wise. Do not let your
problems to govern you. You have to manage them. The problem that you encounter
- it's just an opportunity for you to do something better or go back and start
more correctly.
If you do
something, you'll have problems. Just do not concentrate on the failures, draw
conclusions and forget about failures, think about the awards, which are
waiting for you, about the time when you reach your goal. Errors themselves -
this is normal life situations. You do not kill bugs, and your relationship to
them and how you deal with them. Success is a greater number of errors than the
correct steps. Because, if you plan to be successful, learn how to respond to
them appropriately.
Success is
built on the mistakes and tackle a host of stubborn problems. Always, when you
fall, you fall forward towards the goal. Do not focus on the negative more than
positive things, do not stay lying in a puddle. In a pool you do not shine
wealth, but poverty.
Never forget
that when you come to a result which is not expected, do not feel disappointed,
because when one door closes, another always opens.
Do not be
afraid of pain, the pain of a wonderful teacher she is an incentive to move
forward. To further overcome its first have to feel it. If there would be no
pain, I would not be where I am.
Treat crisis
not as a threat but as an opportunity. Remember that there are no errors, there
are only lessons. Negative experiences there, there are opportunities for
growth.
Salute the
obstacles and difficulties as a valuable and inevitable steps on the ladder of
success. Remember that difficulties come not in order to obstruct, but to
suggest in every difficulty or obstacle lies the seed of equal or greater
capabilities or benefits. Your task is to find him.
When you
look at any great achievement, you find that it is a consequence of the many
difficulties and lessons learned. Difficulties - this is the price you pay for
your success, and lessons learned is what makes it possible your achievements.
As Seneca wrote: "Fire tries gold, misery tries brave men"
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